
I get it. Dating is complicated.
You've got dating apps, profiles, photos, messages, outfits, date spots, texting, missed signals, flaking, ghosting, body language, relationship talks, non-monogamy, AI lovers, and more.
Let's navigate this together.
Hi, I'm Steve Dean —
your personal dating consultant
Together, we'll completely reimagine your dating life.
- We'll assess your personality and preferences.
- We'll talk through your fears, concerns, and patterns.
- We'll reflect on who you might be most compatible with.
- I'll take you on a tour of the dating app landscape.
- We'll gather any photos and set up any profiles you need.
- We'll practice your intros and how you build rapport over time.
- We'll discuss your ideal date ideas.
- We'll evaluate your dates and determine ideal followups.
- We'll design the best relationship possible for you and your partner(s).
Let's lay the foundations for the next decades of your life.
I'm happy to offer single sessions as well as multi-month support.
Here's what others have said about working with me...
I had fortnightly sessions with Steve for 3 months, starting right as the COVID-19 lockdown began.
On paper this should have spelled the end of any dating endeavors but thanks to Steve's deep experience in the online dating realm we took the opportunity to tune up my profiles and explore alternatives for connection amidst the restrictions.
Steve's skill is to meet you where you're at, establish clear goals and help debrief and analyze interactions, all in a sensitive and non-judgemental manner. He is articulate and precise in his diagnoses, which accelerates the process of self-reflection which is so important in dating.
~ Ed T.
“Steve ‘gets’ people. He has an intuitive ability to understand and appreciate others’ perceptions and expectations of the world even if their values and interests differ from his own. Steve also has a particular way of looking at systems and instinctively identifying how they could be made more efficient and effective. I’ve worked alongside him for two years and he’s one of the most creative and resourceful people I know.”
~ Serra K.Dateworking Library + Newsletter
For over 25 years, I’ve been a relationship nerd, obsessively trying to learn all that I can about how we find, form, and sustain relationships.
I'm currently building up a living knowledge base of dating & relationship best practices, events, platforms, professionals, venues, books, games, questions, and philosophies that lead us to heightened self-awareness, social & technological dexterity, and the ability to generate sustainable and empowering connections anywhere we find ourselves in life.
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