
DATEWORKING
wisdom and wayfinding through the modern dating ecosystem
Welcome! I offer coaching, guides, and events to help you discover and optimize:
• What you want — Do you have a sense of who you are, where you're going, and what would make you feel most fulfilled?
• Who you want — What kinds of people do you resonate with? Are those people actually ideal for you?• Would they want you — Are you desirable to them? Are your dating habits effective? How can you discern their preferences?
• How you can succeed online — App choice, profile photos, profile text, messaging strategy, date ideas
• How you can succeed offline — Date design, flirting, escalation, commitment, relationship structure/design
• Where are they — If online, which dating app? If offline, where can you find them? Is there a way to make them come to you?
• How to navigate nontraditional relationships — queer, poly/ENM, kink/BDSM, long distance, etc.
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