- Hone Your Dating and Networking Habits.Make Them Antifragile.
Antifragile habits become stronger and more dynamic in the face of adversity.
In Networking...
Someone who doesn't respond to your email may have a lot more going on. Your data set is limited. Don't presume to know their life.
Others have limitless potential to help us. Embrace this, and do the same. The same hiring manager who can't hire you at this company could be the first one to call you up for an interview at their next company.
Treat your relationships like startups. Be creative. Realistically assess the market. Be upfront about your limitations. Seek feedback. Pivot when needed. Growth is essential.
Don't pressure for things you don't know the other person wants. A friendship lasts forever and pays dividends over time. A burned bridge gets you nowhere.
In Dating...
Someone who doesn't respond to your dating message may have a ton of messages already. Don't presume to know their life.
Our friends, exes, and even current dates have limitless potential to help us. Embrace this, and do the same. The same person who isn't ready to date you right now could enthusiastically refer you to their awesome friend a month from now.
Treat your relationships like startups. Be creative. Realistically assess the market. Be upfront about your limitations. Seek feedback. Pivot when needed. Growth is essential.
Don't pressure for things you don't know the other person wants. A friendship lasts forever and pays dividends over time. A burned bridge gets you nowhere.
Whether in dating, networking, or Dateworking, always strive to build networks of deep integrity, where referrals abound and people feel actively empowered by standing in your presence.
Make it your daily habit to treat everyone and everything with the same degree of earnest pride and care that this man extends to his onion.
Work with me today
Together, we'll completely reimagine your dating life.
- We'll assess your personality and preferences.
- We'll talk through your fears, concerns, and patterns.
- We'll reflect on who you might be most compatible with.
- I'll take you on a tour of the dating app landscape.
- We'll gather any photos and set up any profiles you need.
- We'll practice your intros and how you build rapport over time.
- We'll discuss your ideal date ideas.
- We'll evaluate your dates and determine ideal followups.
- We'll design the best relationship possible for you and your partner(s).
Let's lay the foundations for the next decades of your life.
I'm happy to offer single sessions as well as multi-month support.
